For years now I’ve been referring to my ex-boyfriend getting another girl pregnant as “cheating on me” but just this morning, while brushing my teeth, I realized that every time I think “he cheated on me”, I feel sad and betrayed even though I thought I’ve totally moved on and healed. I realized that I can take away the negative thought that I was just assuming was the circumstance (like you say, sharing the news) and look at that event as a neutral circumstance and think positive thoughts instead. Duh.

C: ex-boyfriend impregnated girl
T: He was doing the best he could at his level of enlightenment.
F: peaceful
A: continue living peaceful life, sending him love and light from afar
R: peaceful life through any circumstance

Here’s to revelations while brushing your teeth!