Money, Old Age, and Bucket Lists Model

I need feedback on my model.

C- Money
T- I don’t want to run out of money
F- Anger
A- Avoid doing or obsess over the numbers, keep ruminating on my husband’s bucket list purchases, try to talk to him about budgeting. I respond to his comments when we talk about money in different ways, I think positive abundance gives me credit that I am smart and manage money well. Cry when I realize that my husband and I do not have the same values or I am not getting my input heard or “allowed.”
R- I continue to think money is a problem because of my husband’s spending.