Why do I feel upset or angry when people assume I force my husband to eat healthy or to behave in a certain way. I know that he allows people to think this and he also plays a role like he’s Mr. Carefree and I’m the health nut/driver whipping him into making healthy choices. This isn’t true. He can do what he wants I simply won’t buy it or cook it for him. He can make his own choices and I know he gladly eat my healthy foods because he secretly want to healthy too.