In today’s (Dec. 14th) excellent coaching call on Relationships, a Scholar talked about someone she was in relationship with.  The Scholar said she is thinking “If she cared, then she would ask”.

Sara Fisk talked about putting ourselves in charge of our thinking so we can feel however we want in our relationships.  Is it ever appropriate to observe the behavior of others toward us and draw conclusions?  For instance, they seem to never ask how we’re doing.  Therefore, should we start getting a clue that they really don’t care?