I could use a little help working through the results

Unintentional
C: I asked if I could invite others to a group outing, person organizing event said no
T: It was rude of me to ask
F: Shame
A: Think about this interaction a lot, spin, consider not going, withdraw
R: ??Less connection with others??

Intentional
C: I asked if I could invite others to a group outing, person organizing event said no
T: It’s possible that it was polite of me to ask
F: Relieved
A: Hold my head high, feel positive about interactions in the group. Still have thoughts/questions/doubt about if I should have asked.
R: ??