My husband has been working in another state for more than a year, and at the same time this has been a marital seperation. He left not intending to return. I have maintained my interest in staying married, and have always wanted to reconcile and move forward together in a “new” marriage.
I am not sure what has happened, but my interest in him and being with him has wained quite dramatically, though I still want to stay married. I have been looking at how to employ bridge thoughts to see if I can get myself to a better place of interest in him and what it looks like to have him back in our family’s world.
He has recently said he is going to move back to our home and I want to be excited about it or even feeling more happy about it. I have to work on thoughts about resentment towards him for leaving, limiting finances, etc. etc.
I am just not sure how to help my little brain along to come up with some better feelings and results.
Please help. I know it’s all about my thinking. I just don’t know how to get that thinker going the right way.
Always grateful for your knowldge!!