Showing up as a friend

Hi there! Thanks a lot for your previous advice. I ran two models and found that I’m expecting myself to show up as a coach when I should really just show up as a friend. Does this make sense?

C – conversation with friend
T – I need to prove to them that I’m a good coach
F – overwhelmed
A – coaching a little listening a little, constantly swapping roles, doubting myself, not listening carefully, being concerned with myself first
R – no coaching result + didn’t show up for friend

C – conversation with friend
T – I’m a good friend
F – content
A – being there with them, listening carefully, sharing my own experiences, not teaching, not coaching
R – showed up for friend

Thank you!